понедельник, 22 октября 2007 г.

Contra authenticity forced thoughts


One of my favorite words is the authenticity. Authentic living means that the actions of a person is not determined by external influences, but this behavior from the person itself, while permanent manipulation in humans, with a weak self-consciousness to a permanent loss of authenticity, and even to a loss of identity can lead.
It is so important, authentic, that is in harmony with itself to live. Temporary seen like it might work, contrary to his wishes, ideas and habits of living, but in the long term holds forced to perfect adaptation to its environment add enormous risks, as I have unfortunately repeatedly in humans experience that is not live but lived ...
This forced thoughts and actions, which affected people in the manifest, although some of these people even felt as tantalizing, but is forced, not to let them, even if those thoughts and acts completely exaggerated or entirely meaningless. False perceived and the love of fellow man einsuggerierte guilt feelings are not rare in this ever again in this unreal pattern to expire.
Again and again when doubts for compulsive personalities play a role that can not be underestimated. Doubts serve the idea of forced afflicted persons in the first place only once as a kind of protection. A protection before, to ravish to leave something that you may bitterly regret it afterwards. Doubts may come when people are so fragile more independent and to a substitute for real action to be active. Conclusion is a reluctance to take steps in the right direction to do and the indecision leads not infrequently, in his neurotic patterns of thought to remain with the result nothing to do. Even when trying to adapt to the thoughts or actions to oppose occurs with the people with symptoms such an intense internal tension and fear, which makes him unable to live freely.

Finally, I also believe that nothing should remain as it is, and that it is important that people in love and forbearance to meet. But even with all the vision must be as affected Mitmensch aware Eight to adapt to a level not to be drawn, which itself is not a good one. It is important to put limits and themselves not to forget!
Is it conceivable that out of this vicious circle is not without therapeutic help out, you can psychtotherapeutische procedures such as relaxation techniques and relaxation therapy to help. But even here it is, as always, to the willingness of the parties concerned, can really help too.

B.D.

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